tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5805398831109684496.post4782737388273089382..comments2024-03-06T16:52:22.446-05:00Comments on Z-Manics: Is it me ... or just bad luck?Zanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16326966899366316447noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5805398831109684496.post-90467508804606243082017-03-18T13:26:25.284-04:002017-03-18T13:26:25.284-04:00Thanks for the helpful advice, Tom K. If the situ...Thanks for the helpful advice, Tom K. If the situation isn't totally broken already, and I think it is, I'll probably follow your suggestions.Zanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16326966899366316447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5805398831109684496.post-75106384182240143942017-03-18T12:31:00.465-04:002017-03-18T12:31:00.465-04:00First off on the positive side at least he was tru...First off on the positive side at least he was truthful and told you about the trip and who he was traveling with.<br />It appears that he and ex have not come to conclusion about their relationship so you are not being unreasonable about your feelings concerning this. <br />The fact that they were together six years means they were intimate and possibly still are. Intimacy is an important part of any relationship, age makes no difference.<br />And if settling means sharing him with his ex then settling wouldn't work. <br />Let him take his trip if he calls when he returns talk to him and be honest on what you expect if he wants to continue his relationship with you. <br />If he is unwilling to let the past go then there most likely is no future for you with him.Tom Knoreply@blogger.com